It was my birthday today (technically yesterday) and let me say, it was a great birthday. I didn’t mean for the title to sound like it was only “good” vs “outstanding” or some such; I just liked the way “good” sounded.
My day started off this morning with my wonderful wife getting me McDonald’s for breakfast and picking up a copy of Battlefield Bad Company 2 for my birthday. We relaxed with our daughter for a few hours, I played the game for a bit, then we decided to roll the dice and see how Cindy would react to the outside world with an early restaurant dinner. As I’m sure all parents do, we timed it between feedings when we figured she would be asleep and it worked perfectly. We’re certainly in a sweet spot where she sleeps most of the time, is on a regular feeding schedule, and is pretty much only woken up by cold hands on her warm skin.
After dinner, we got home, cleaned up a bit, I played my game for a while, spent some time with the family, then put Cindy on my chest while Bernadette slept and I played for a couple more hours. Cindy woke up, I brought her up to Bernadette, kept playing, then Bernadette brought her back down and Cindy slept for a few more hours, allowing me to gain some important XP in my game. The little detail there is that Bernadette got a blanket and curled up on the floor while Cindy tried to fall asleep so I could play my game in peace. Don’t worry, I didn’t let her stay there and sent her back up to bed.
Here’s the thing I’ve been meaning to write about, though: my wife is a simply amazing mother. Throughout the whole pregnancy and the labor and delivery, she’s approached things with a calm and rational head, which has also allowed me to remain largely calm and collected. The way that I see her interact with Cindy is nothing short of astonishing. She is so patient, loving, communicative, and puts Cindy’s needs in front of all of ours; I would have it no other way and it’s yet another area that we agree completely on.
I couldn’t imagine a more beautiful daughter, wonderful mother and loving wife as my family and will cherish this birthday forever. It certainly was a good day.